Men have heard the phrase, women live by the phrase, and I believe every part of it to be true.
Unfortunately, there are some people roaming around this world who don't share the same sentiment. As awful as it is to hear about it, sexual assault happens, abusive relationships exist, and human trafficking is still an ongoing problem. It can happen inside homes and college campuses. It can happen to your mother, your sister or your best friend.


It's not always obvious or easy to spot. It even happens to the "IT" couple that seems to be in lover's paradise. We saw it happen between Chris Brown and Rihanna, the celebrity couple that seemed to be in a very happy relationship...

...Until it was very publicly announced that Brown committed an act of domestic violence against Rihanna in 2009.

Heartbreaking, isn't it? Chris Brown was such a cutie and he's really talented. It's a shame to see what people can do.
Violence against women occurs everyday at the hands of someone else.
I honestly feel like there is no way to ever understand why actions like these even exist; however, they do. I hope you want this violence to stop just as much as I do, so I decided to bring this subject to light because a few weeks ago, I was given an assignment to write a news release concerning sex crimes on college campuses. After doing a little more research, I found things that I always knew before, but never realized how serious these facts needed to be taken.
For instance, in the case of sexual assault, many victims blame themselves for what happened causing them not to report the crime. Some victims fail to truly understand the legal definition of rape and therefore fail to report the crime.
What we wish these victims knew, and what we want them to know, is that this is never their fault.
Unfortunately, authorities aren't able to handle the few reported crimes as well as they can because the number of reported crimes is, sadly, very low. The National Sexual Violence Resource Center reports that one in five women are victims of domestic violence, and only about 20 percent of these cases are reported. Authorities haven't had very many chances to improve their procedures.
So, as of Sept. 29, the government decided to take this matter a little more seriously. The United States Senate is amidst efforts to tackle violence against women according to the Human Rights Watch website.
The website also says that efforts will include "increased legal and judicial protections against violence against women, strengthened health services to respond to such violence, increased educational and economic opportunities for women, and changes to social norms that perpetuate violence against women."
This can help. If seriously enacted, this WILL help. This sort of behavior shouldn't be the result of a "social norm." And if it is, what kind of society are we to think that perpetuating this sort of violence is
normal?
This could happen to anyone. It could be your mother, your sister, or your best friend. It can even happen to men. Although I am focusing on violence against women, it can happen to
anyone, and
no one deserves this kind of treatment. Period.